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The Science of Getting Rich Ebook

The Science of Getting Rich Ebook is the digital version of a classic book by the same name.  The latest craze ‘The Secret’ and Law of Attraction teachers in that movie/book really started with this book written in 1910 by a guy named Wallace Wattles.

The main premise of the book is that your thoughts create your reality.  The thing is that no one really talks about is that it is your unconscious thoughts that are often running the show!  You can know if it these unconscious thoughts by they way you feel.  If you are feeling anything but love and joy you can pretty much know that it is your old unconscious thoughts and beleifs that are showing their face.   These thoughts and beliefs are created at a very early age by the way we are treated by our caretakers.  It usually isn’t intentional on their part.  Most parents just didn’t or don’t know how what they do really affects their children.

The thing that most people miss in the Science of Getting Rich Ebook is that your feelings need to match your thoughts.  If you are planning on getting out of debt and keep focusing on the debt rather than on what you are going to do to get out of it you will get more debt.  If you are feeling anything but gratitude or even love for your debt you can use those other feelings to help you become more conscious of the things that are keeping you stuck in debt.

Money issues and primary relationships are the biggest places that bring up all of our unconscious programming.

You can learn how to change your beliefs and even re-wire your brain to start responding differently.  The best way to begin is by studying and learning about how the unconcious works in the Science of Getting Rich Ebook.  Reading the Ebook is only the first step.  Learning to live the science of getting rich requires that you start challenging your beliefs and becoming more conscious of those unconscious parts of yourself.  This is best done with a guide and group who are going through the same thing.  The whole process can be very painful and challenging but with the help of a guide and support group it can go much faster.

The one I joined a few years ago was the Practical Geniuses Course offered by Rebecca Fine of www.scienceofgettingrich.net .  She has put together a program and workbook to help you start uncovering your unconscious beliefs.  There is also a forum of support that are doing the same workbook and sharing their experiences. The thing about the class is that if you are on a limited budget you can set your own rate for taking the class and pay only what you can afford to pay.

So what feelings and thoughts do you have about the idea that most of our lives are lived being unconscious?  What questions do you have about the Ebook or what thoughts and experiences do you have?

Starting a Massage Career in this economy

I seem to be getting a lot of questions from people wondering if they should go to massage school and change careers in this economy.  What the economy is doing is their business.  You economy is not the worlds economy.  I am not saying it will be easy.  Nothing will be easy in this economy.  It will definitely challenge you to become more aware of your beliefs about money and making a successful living doing whatever you want to be doing.

The stress and fear that is being spread across the country is even more reason to start learning massage and working as a massage therapist in any capacity.  I saw a PBS Documentary last fall from  National Geographic: Stress – Portrait of a Killer that was done by a Robert Sapolsky a researcher on stress.  He studied Baboons for over 30 years and watched a tribe of baboons die because of stress.  The group had gotten into some bad garbage from a village and contracted tuberculosis.  The dominant and aggressive members died.  The members who were more nurturing, less aggressive and were more involved in their social groups and also grooming lived.  It was very straight forward.  Stress Kills.

Massage Therapy Jobs while they are becoming more common, it is difficult to find a job that pays $35 or more an hour.  Realistically it is difficult to make a living on that wage and support a family.  In a massage job you usually only are able to work 25-30 hours tops.  You also only get paid that amount when you have a client.  If you don’t have a client you get paid minimum wage.  Most massage jobs don’t have any benefits such as vaction or sick pay or holiday pay nor do they offer retirement plans.  Out of that $35 an hour you have to be able to save for vacations, for slow periods and for retirement. With the way the economy is and the way jobs are you still have to engage in the job enough to get and keep clients.  You will still be doing sales of products to clients to increase the income of the business and yours.  Most massage jobs you still really have to do most of what a self-employed massage therapist will be doing.

It is much more profitable to open your own massage office and has much more potential for making a great living and even making $100,000 a year as a massage therapist.  It does require that you learn about setting up a business and learn how to get clients.  There are also other ways to make money as a self-employed massage therapist.  You can use your website to make money while you work by referring people to affiliate programs and writing articles and using Google Adsense on your site.

Your success will depend largely on your underlying beliefs about money and being successful.  Being self employed will bring up those issues so that you can clearly see them and begin to change them.  Your underlying beliefs are mostly unconscious meaning you aren’t aware of them.  The way to get in touch with them is by paying attention to what you are feeling.  Your feelings will tell you what your beliefs are.  If you are writing a massage business plan and you are planning on working on 20 clients a week for $100 a session notice what feelings come up.  Most likely it is something like “I can’t charge $100 a session.  No one will pay that or I am not worth that.”  These little thoughts are the key to your beliefs.  Is it true that no one will pay that?  You don’t know really.  Is it true that you are not worth that?  You don’t know that really.

Working to uncover your unconscious beliefs about money and success will allow you to become conscious of them and make different choices.  It is a process.  It isn’t easy.  You will have to do it no matter what career you choose.  The econonmy doesn’t really matter.  If you think that changing careers in this economy will make it more difficult to be successful than it will be more difficult.  If you know you want to do it more than anything else in the world right now you will be motivated to do whatever it takes to be successful.  Will you eat macaroni and cheese until you get enough clients?  Will you put in long hours learning and creating marketing programs?  Will you keep at it even though you will have ups and downs?  Will you have the persistence and patience to make it happen?  These are some of the things to think about when you are considering opening your own massage business in the face of a challenging economy.

Websites for Massage Therapists

If you haven’t already noticed I am a fanatic about websites for massage therapists.  For me they have been a saving grace because honestly I hate marketing and being the shy person that I am – I hate having to be a sales person.  I just let my website do all of the work for me.  I just have to keep focused on what I want and the rest just happens.  Of course I take action and lots of it – writing new articles for my website each week and writing a regular email newsletter for my clients.  I am not that good of a writer really.  I just write the way I would talk.  That makes it much easier for me.

If you don’t have a website for your massage business or you have a website but it isn’t getting a steady flow of clients coming into your massage business – it is about time you invested in one.

The website host that I use and recommend is Site Build it!  I just spent a few days updating the pages on my websites about websites for massage therapists on www.workless-playmore.com.  I have written down everything I know about creating a website and how to get that website found and get a steady flow of clients.  It is best to use Site Build it to help back you up.  They also now have a team of webmasters who can build a site for you -their SiteSell Services team for those of you who don’t have the time to spend on creating a site.  For do it your-selfers you can actually do it all yourself because it comes with a complete step by step action guide.  (If you want to read it before you buy just email me and I can give you a link to the guide that comes in written and video form.)

See websites for massage therapists on www.workless-playmore.com

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Reinvention- Brian Tracy’s New Book

ReinventionI am a big fan of Brian Tracy.  He has a way of putting things in to easy, understandable concepts that anyone can apply an implement.  His latest book is no different.

Do you have things you want to do but feel stuck in completing?  Do you have bad habits that you want to break to achieve the success you deserve?

It doesn’t matter how old you are, or if you think you’re set in your ways — there are things you can do to become a better, stronger and more confident version of yourself.

In Brain’s new book, Reinvention: How to Make the Rest of Your Life the Best of Your Life, he takes you on a quest to discover exactly what you want out of life — then help you get it!

He will teach you how to literally draw a line between your past and your future by…

  • Identifying what’s really important to you
  • Taking control of your career once and for all
  • Targeting and getting the job you really want
  • Turning unexpected challenges into opportunities
  • Increasing your ear ning potential exponentially
  • Developing the self-confidence to take risks to enjoy big pay-offs

In these challenging times it is important to get all the information you can on making the best decisions for you.

Last chance sale on Websites

My intention was to do a series of articles on how to use a website for your massage practice and also to make additional income for yourself by just writing about a topic that you love and know alot about.  Well it didn’t work out that way after a snow storm left me with a wet phone line that gave me minimal connection to my websites etc.  Talk about cabin fever!

So I missed out on being able to take you step by step through the process of creating a website but it is all laid out really in the Site Build it! action guide which you can read and use for free no matter what hosting system you use.  SBI! is more than just hosting though – it is more of a business system, support system and business coach all rolled into one package.  It does take some time and patience and work though although I don’t consider writing about things I love work!

That is the basic premise of one of my SBI! websites – www.workless-playmore.com

I just got this in my daily message from Neale Donald Walsh :

The point of your activities throughout the day is not to

make a living, but to make a life; not to ‘work’ but to

create joy. If you are doing what you are doing merely

to ‘pay the bills,’ you will have missed the major reason

for All Of Life.

The purpose of life is to know and express Who You

Are. If you do other than that during the days and times

of your life, you will have not used those days and times

in a way that profits your soul. It is soul profit we are

after here, not body profit.

That in a nutshell describes SBI! and my websites.   I can’t wait to wake up in the morning to begin writing and discovering what is going on.   I can’t wait to learn how to set up my next site and learn what people are needing information on so I can share what I know.  When I first started my website -www.thebodyworker.com I did it because I wanted to share everything I knew about creating a massage business mainly because there was no one to really teach or mentor me back then when I started.  I learned by trial and error and struggle.  It doesn’t have to be that way now with so much out there to help you learn but you can read every book and join every massage marketing site and still not be successful.

What makes the difference is your beliefs about yourself – the unconscious self talk that you keep repeating over and over.  What tells you what you are thinking about unconsciously is your feelings!  Staying with a project long enough to create suceess will show you your feelings without question.  Whether you allow yourself to feel them or learn from them is another story.   I know it is unbelieveable but SBI! is one of the things that helped me understand that.  SBI! is so complex yet so simple it brings up all of your fears about being good enough or smart enough to learn and implement something.  If you can just take it step by step (which they have all laid out in their action guide and many many articles and ebooks on websites) you can persever.

Order through this link or banner today and you will get access to my private SBI! coaching Yahoo Group where I will help you on an individual basis.  Let me know if you have any questions…

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