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Getting Clear about what you want.One of the first steps in creating what you want lies in getting really clear about what it is that you desire. Most people don't even know where to begin with what they desire. They know what they don't want. They also think that what they desire is so unachievable that they won't be able to get it or that they will have to work too hard to get it or that they are not deserving of it.
To find out what you really desire, you have to start doing some research and investigate what you think you want. One of the things that will tell you when you are on track is by how you feel. Your feelings are what inform you of when there is a discrepancy between what you want/desire and the steps that you are taking or the choices that you are making are in alignment with your inner being. The more choices you can make that are in alignment, the more attractive you become. We have also been taught in many ways that what we desire - what our heart wishes is frivolous or selfish. When you are acting or choosing out of need (neediness), it implies that you are lacking something. When you desire something it is something that you think you are worthy of and deserving of. Most of us put our desires on the back burners. We think we have to go to college and get a good job in order to make money. We forget about our hearts desires trying to please others. Connecting with your desires and building an unwavering faith that you can have what you desire is one of the keys to getting clear about what you desire. The "yeah buts" have to be uncovered and cleared up. The "yeah buts" are those beliefs that you accepted as true when you didn't know any better- those thoughts that tell say you aren't good enough or aren't enough or can't do it.
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